Be the leading lady

In a movie, there are always two types of characters; the leading lady and the best friend.
And depending on circumstances and situational values there is that day, it tends to differ in what you play.
one day, you can be the supporting friend, looking out for the leading lady in someone else’s day.. yet another day you can be playing the leading lady., the one who desires it all, the one with all the attention. The leading lady is the one who everyone focus’ on, the one who takes control. The dominate character.
But some days you just don’t know who to play, and that’s when times really do get hard. The confusion of wanting to be the leading lady, yet only ever merely playing the best friend.

The point I’m getting at is that, we as people are never going to know when the biggest day of our life will occur. We may think we know, and prep ourselves to be the leading lady as we feel this is our time to shine, yet they’re never as big as you make them out to be in our head.

It’s the regular days. The ones that start out to be ever so normal. Those days are the ones that end up being our biggest, without us even knowing. Its not until its happing. You don’t recognize your biggest day. Not until your right there in the middle of it, in the moment. The day you commit yourself to someone or something. Whether it’s the day you get your heart broken. The day you meet your soul mate. The day you realize that there’s not enough time… because you want to live forever. Those days are the biggest days. The prefect most serial ones, the ones you wish you could play over and over and never let go. Those are our biggest days.

But answer me this one question. What happens that in those normal days, which never seem to be big until your half way through? What happens, when that moment you realize it’s the day to be the leading lady, yet only playing the best friend, what then happens? What if we only have one big day, the day were meant to shine, yet we don’t? Do we just miss out, and we’ve missed our chance forever ?. Well my answer to that is, don’t let that chance miss you. Play the leading lady. everyone deserves to be the leading lady in their own life, everyday. So here is me telling you now. Take that chance, make that risk, be the central character of your own life. And don’t let others shine over you. Stop being the best friend. Be the leading lady.